I have a major issue with Facebook's photo uploader and IE8. When I click to
upload photos, I get the prompt to install the Active X control but before I
can click on install, I get an error message like "The instruction at
"Ox..........." referenced memory at "........" The memory could not be
written and then the boot. Any ideas?

The only answers other FB users give me is to use Firefox, to which I say,
WRONG! That's not even an answer! I want to know WHY it doesn't work. I
tried both compatibility mode and regular, no change. Using XP SP3, IE8, all
updated.